My Favorite Black Friday Deals!!

Black Friday Shopping has been a favorite thing of mine for many years. This year however it was done all on the computer. Being sick this year really put a damper on my Thanksgiving dinner with my family and my shopping. But that is just part of living the life I live. I do have to share some of the deals that I found that I am super excited about.

I did a little shopping for myself as well as my family. I wont be posting the gifts I found for my family because they do read this blog and I do not want to ruin their surprises. I think my favorite things I got I actually found on Jane.com. I had never really shopped there but they had some amazing deals. Are you familiar with Jane.com? I was not until i recently saw it mentioned on someones instastory.  Basically Jane.com is a website for all sorts of companies to post their items. Its kind of like renting a both in retail space only online. So you can literally find anything at this one stop shop website. I found electronics like headphones and charges for my electronics. I found clothes of course, and I found all sorts of fun things. The only downfall is that if you buy multiple items from different vendors you do have to pay shipping to each different vendor.

Now that I have explained Jane.com I will post some of thbe deals that I found. I will start with the items I found on Jane.com

First I got a 10Ft bungee changer for my Iphone, for $3.99. They are available for Iphones and Samsung phones.

I also found some great deals on t-shirts. Not that exciting however necessary.

First is the Long Boyfriend Pocket Tee, in sizes S-2XL. I got one for $12.99

And I also got two Hi-Low Oversized Tees. They are available in size S- 2XL. I got them for $9.99 each.

This next one I am super excited about. It is a 22 piece makeup brush set from Coastal Scents .I read the reviews and they were Fantastic!!! Normally a brush set of this size would cost $40 or more. I got this one for $14.99!!! They are still on sale and their whole website is 50-80% off through 11/28/17 at 11:59pm. So definitely go check them out!!

22 Piece Brush Set

The next item I got that I am super super excited about is from A shop on ETSY called BOSSBOOK!! They make business planners, workbooks and notepads!! They can customize them for your business. Right now they are offering FREE SHIPPING on any order over $50! The planner I got is specialized for makeup and beauty consultants. If you have a a team and want planners for all of them they do offer group discounts. And Kaitlyn is great to work with and her customer service is amazing!!! So go check them out!

These are my favorite items that I got on Black Friday and I just wanted to share with you all so you can also go check out these awesome websites.

Hope you all have had a great Thanksgiving and found some amazing Black Friday deals.

Amber

Gift Guide For The Chronically Ill

Christmas time is upon us and gift buying is always a struggle. Not just for us, but also for those who are buying for us. So I took some time and put together a gift guide for those struggling with chronic illness!!

I’ve chosen everything that is under $75.00, and can all be found either on Amazon or online. I will let you know where each item can be found.

First let’s start with one of my (and my fellow spoonie friends) favorites.

1. The Throw Blanket – Not only is it gorgeous, but it keeps us warm. This specific blanket comes in 24 different colors and is available in Twin and Throw size!

Where can I find it: Amazon.com

Price: $23.99 – $29.99

One of a Spoonies biggest problem at night is not being able to get comfortable. So the next item helps with just that.

2. The U-Shaped Body Pillow – this pillow will provide comfort and support for all parts of your body. (Yes, it also works during pregnancy)

Where can I find it: Amazon.com

Price: $42.95

3. The Heated Throw

Along that same line here is a great option for a heated blanket that does more than keep us warm. It will help tremendously with pain.

This specific Throw is a best seller and Sunbeam is the best selling manufacturer. This model is comes in multiple colors and has a lighted control

Where can I find it: Amazon.com

Price: $34.99

This is another option for a heated blanket. This one pictured is twin sized (however you can find them in queen and king size as well) and is perfect not just for you. This option (in twin size) will also be a hit with your spouse if they don’t want to sleep with a heated blanket. It features a foot control and an automatic 10 hour shut off.

Where can I find it: Amazon.com

Price: $52- $62

While we are on the topic of heat. Let’s take a look at a heating pad.

4. The heating pad- these are good when you have an area that needs heat but you don’t want to lay under a full sized heated throw.

Where can I find it: Amazon.com

Price: $16.37

There is nothing better than a soft and comfy robe to wear around the house. Which brings us to our next gift idea

5. Robe – This is a microfiber fleece hotel spa robe with pockets. This particular robe is One Size Fits All and comes in 10 different colors.

Where can I find it: Amazon.com

Price: $34.89

Another great idea for Spoonies is the perfect pair of lounge/ sweat pants/leggings. It’s important that nothing is too tight, because depending on the condition tight clothes can make things worse.

Leggings are a big hit among most Spoonies bc they are soft and feel good on the skin.

6. Leggings – these come in 10 color options and have a 4.5 start rating.

Where can I find it: Kohl’s/Kohl’s.com

Price: $14.99 (currently on sale from original price of $20.00)

Women’s Plus Size Leggings also at Kohl’s on sale for $17.99, regular Price $24.00

Spoonies in general deal with being cold and having cold extremities. So the next item is perfect for that

7. Warm Socks- This specific item is a 5 pack of thick knit wool. They come in 6 different color options.

Where can I find it: Amazon.com

Price: $12.99

8. Maybe my most favorite item on the list. Bath bombs!! These particular Bath bombs come in packages of six, are Vegan and made with essential oils.

Where can I find it: Amazon.com

Price: $17.95

9. Foot Spa – This vibrating foot spa comes with foot controls, so there is no bending over to turn it on and off. And comes with one attachment. And it’s just what your feet nee after a long day!! These are also great to use if you are doing home pedicures with the kids or young adult in your life.

Where can I find it: Amazon.com, Walmart

Price: $17.69

The next item goes right along with the previous two. But this not only feels good but it helps to ease sore muscles.

10. It may not be a fun gift but it’s practical. Epsom Salt makes taking a bath when you are in pain so much more pleasant. Always a good gift for a spoonie.

Where can i find it: Amazon.com, Walmart it most pharmacies.

Price: $15.99 (However, prices will vary depending on kind, size of bag and where it is purchased.)

Now that we’ve covered the big items, let’s talk about a few stocking stuffers.

11. Adult Coloring Book- Who doesn’t love to color and it’s been proven that it’s a good way to relieve stress!!

Where can I find it: Barnes & Noble, Walmart, Amazon, most book stores

Price: $8.99

If you are buying an Adult Coloring Book then the next item is a MUST HAVE!!

12. Markers!! You have to have a way to color your book and these dual tip brush pens are AMAZING!!

Where can I find them: Amazon, Walmart, Art Stores, any where markers are sold.

Price: $12.99

**the set pictured is found on Amazon**

13. Mani Moo Hair Ties- These hair ties are no crease and no pain. So if you have someone in your Life with headaches these are a MUST have!!

Where can I find it: Amazon.com

Price: 10.00/6 Hair Ties

14. Gift Cards: Gift cards are always a good stocking stuffer. Whether they are to A store or a restaurant, they will give your friend or family a good reason to get out of the house!!

Where can I find it: Any store, restaurant or online shop!

Price: Varies

When you have a lot of pain in your hands and use your phone a lot this next item is a MUST!

15. Popsockets- Not only do these make it easier to hold your phone when your hands hurt. They also make great stocking stuffer ideas. They come in all kinds of designs and you even have the option to create your own!!

Where can I find it: Popsocket.com, Amazon, and many other retailers.

Price: $10-20

16. The Eye/Sleep mask- This will be a great gift for anyone with migraines or who just have problems sleeping. I provided two price options for this gift.

1. The Spa Collection Mask is a great gift bc it allows for heat or cold to be an option. It also comes in two colors.

Where can I find it: Bed Bath and Beyond

Price: 24.99

1. This option is just the plain basic option but completes the same task of keeping the light out of ones eyes. I find it helpful to keep one like this in my hospital bag in case I lose it.

Where can i Find it: Bed Bath and Beyond

Price: $6.99

I hope this gift guide provides you with some ideas for your Chronically Ill friends or family. May you all have a Merry Christmas and happy shopping!!

Amber

10 Ways to Survive The Holidays With Lupus

We’ve made it through Halloween and it’s almost the holiday season again. For most it’s a joyful time, but for those with chronic illnesses it can be quite the opposite. It can become a time of worry and planning. Planning how to make it through all the parties, the cooking, the crowds etc. A time of worry about the germs we will be exposed to, if we will get sick, when we can squeeze in naps, and how far in advance we can prepare dishes so we don’t have to do marathon cooking! The holidays are just plain exhausting, and for many don’t carry the excitement that they once did.
So what can the chronically ill do to make it through the holiday? It depends on the person and what illness they deal with. That being said the following is a general list of things we can do to get through this season.
1. PLAN AHEAD- One of the best things we can do to get through this season is plan ahead. Know what you have when and plan accordingly. If you know you have events several days in a row or an event that is long you can plan the remainder of your week so you can rest. You can move your schedule around so you have plenty of down time so you have the energy to get through your events.
2. TRY TO STAY AWAY FROM THOSE WHO ARE ILL- I know this is much easier said than done. But it is essential to getting through the holidays without getting sick. It never fails We go out shopping or to a party and come home sick. So don’t be afraid to wear a mask when leaving the house. I know you feel like you stand out and you get stared out. But really it’s for Your Health!!
3. REST, REST, REST- I touched on this above but to make it through the holidays rest is going to be essential. Between the cooking and the shopping and the parties if we don’t rest we won’t make it through the season unscathed and somewhat healthy!!
4. DONT FEEL LIKE YOU HAVE TO ATTEND EVERY EVENT YOU ARE INVITED TO- It never fails that during the Holidays there will be tons of events and people who want to get together. And that’s great and grand. But not at all plausible. So pick and chose the most important ones and decline the others. People will understand!
5. IF YOU ARE HOSTING A PARTY OR DINNER, DELEGATE! – There is absolutely nothing wrong with asking others to bring side dishes or dessert. Ask someone to come over before to help you, and start the party early!! Also try and plan dishes that can be made ahead of time and refrigerated or placed in the freezer till right before the event! Don’t be afraid to ask others for help to clean up!!! You don’t have to be the Lone Ranger! It’s okay to ask for help!
6. DO SOME OR ALL OF YOUR SHOPPING ONLINE- In order to conserve energy and preserve your Health do your shopping online. There really aren’t many things you can’t buy online. And most places will even do your gift wrapping for you!! Online shopping is the perfect way to shop for those of us chronically ill. If you are worried about additional costs, the prices are the same as in store, and with a few Google searches you can normally find an additional online coupon code to take a percentage off.
7. PLAN THE BEST TIMES IN THE STORES!- If you are a person that prefers to shop in the store or have an item that is only found in stores, that’s totally understandable. That being said try to pick the best times to be in the stores. Meaning when the crowds aren’t as heavy and the parking lots aren’t full. These times are generally first thing in the morning when the stores open or right before they close. If you have to be in the stores try to get to it before the huge crowds appear in the weeks immediately leading up to the holiday. Don’t be that person fighting the crowd on Christmas Eve.
8. STAND UP FOR YOURSELF/DONT FEEL BULLIED- Plain and simple you just can’t do it all. There is no way that you will be able to attend every party or gathering, do the cooking, the shopping etc. so stand up for you and what’s right for your body. And don’t let anyone bully you into changing your mind when you know it’s wrong. They don’t have to live with the consequences of pushing yourself too far.  So do what you know is right and feels right for you!!
9. BE WISE IN YOUR CHOICES OF FOOD AND DRINK! The holidays are known for being a time in indulge, or over indulge for many on all the great foods we don’t have all year. It is also time to be merry and have an adult beverage to celebrate. That being said if you know eating certain foods or drinks are going to make you sick be careful. No matter how good it may look and smell it’s not worth the result they may cause.
10. Last but definitely not least. FIND TIME TO TREAT AND PAMPER YOURSELF- I know the Holidays are meant to be a time of giving to others, but you need a treat now and then too. The stress of the Holidays and others attitudes can really bring a person down. So take sometime in the coming weeks to do something for you once a week. Whether that’s soaking in a hot bath, or getting a massage, or something a simple as curling up for the evening to watch a favorite Holiday movie. DO IT!! You’ll thank me later.
These are just 10 simple ways to make this time of year a little easier on the Chronically Ill. These are things we all may struggle with but we need to really focus on during the Holidays to help us make it through as healthy as possible. No one wants to be down and out while everyone else is celebrating. Personally I love a good hot bath with a good bath bomb. Or reading a good book or watching a movie and just relaxing with my heated blanket!!
May you all have a Happy Holiday Season and hopefully you will find these tips helpful.
Happy Holidays!
Amber